Wednesday, 19 November 2008

Support Victims of Bullying, Harrassment and Abuse

Support Victims of Bullying, Harrassment and Abuse

I am writing this today 13th November 2008, you see a few days ago I was told by someone that people or everyone is getting sick or tired of me mentioning of how someone did something wrong to me again.
And I partly agree because I am sick and tired of saying it, as well.

But you know something; I only started speaking out because I was told to.

Let me explain, you see when you are bullied, abused, you are told to tell someone and have support with someone standing beside you,
Yea right.
When you are subject to domestic violence, whether your being harassed, whatever word you choose to use, label, title it, you are asked or told to tell someone, and you know something I held it back from a lot of you for a long time, I mean years and why because all you people couldn’t be bothered and from the words used, its drama.

It is mentioned on police websites to speak up and don’t deal with this on your own, it is mentioned on bully websites, abuse websites and domestic violence websites, so I guess there all wrong huh.

I bet you all went running to the police or for help when something wrong was done by and to you where you live.
I bet you do it in the future if you have not done it in past.
Next time you need help, don’t go running to them, deal with it on your own and then let’s see how YOU deal and cope with it.

Well it seems we have the same rights online, and as I have said many times, I have the right to peace and harmony and to be left alone.
Well I have been told in a nice way I guess to stop telling people stuff, and you know, I very rarely told anyone anything about me; I would just deal with it on my own.

So I will go back to it, I will not be saying anything about me or my life to you if we ever talk.
So when you say how are you, I will say “ok” whether I am or I am not and that’s all your ever going to get from me.
Now of course you will tell me all about yourselves and I will sit there and listen to what you say, like I always do and like I always have done, but you know what, that is what friends do and that is what good people do.
I am feeling you people need to read what it is to be a good friend but I think it can also mean to be a good friend.

I will deal with these bullies and abuses alone from now on, I won’t be telling any of you anything about me or my life with the exception of, I will write it down so you can all read it, if YOU choose to. But that’s up to you and it is your choice.

Please I am asking you to be there for your friends, family when they are going through a hard time of Bullying, Abuse, and Harassment etc.