Support Victims of Bullying, Harrassment and Abuse

Support Victims of Bullying, Harrassment and Abuse

I am writing this today 13th November 2008, you see a few days ago I was told by someone that people or everyone is getting sick or tired of me mentioning of how someone did something wrong to me again.
And I partly agree because I am sick and tired of saying it, as well.

But you know something; I only started speaking out because I was told to.

Let me explain, you see when you are bullied, abused, you are told to tell someone and have support with someone standing beside you,
Yea right.
When you are subject to domestic violence, whether your being harassed, whatever word you choose to use, label, title it, you are asked or told to tell someone, and you know something I held it back from a lot of you for a long time, I mean years and why because all you people couldn’t be bothered and from the words used, its drama.

It is mentioned on police websites to speak up and don’t deal with this on your own, it is mentioned on bully websites, abuse websites and domestic violence websites, so I guess there all wrong huh.

I bet you all went running to the police or for help when something wrong was done by and to you where you live.
I bet you do it in the future if you have not done it in past.
Next time you need help, don’t go running to them, deal with it on your own and then let’s see how YOU deal and cope with it.

Well it seems we have the same rights online, and as I have said many times, I have the right to peace and harmony and to be left alone.
Well I have been told in a nice way I guess to stop telling people stuff, and you know, I very rarely told anyone anything about me; I would just deal with it on my own.

So I will go back to it, I will not be saying anything about me or my life to you if we ever talk.
So when you say how are you, I will say “ok” whether I am or I am not and that’s all your ever going to get from me.
Now of course you will tell me all about yourselves and I will sit there and listen to what you say, like I always do and like I always have done, but you know what, that is what friends do and that is what good people do.
I am feeling you people need to read what it is to be a good friend but I think it can also mean to be a good friend.

I will deal with these bullies and abuses alone from now on, I won’t be telling any of you anything about me or my life with the exception of, I will write it down so you can all read it, if YOU choose to. But that’s up to you and it is your choice.

Please I am asking you to be there for your friends, family when they are going through a hard time of Bullying, Abuse, and Harassment etc.

8-11-08 What Is A Real Friend Updated

What is a REAL & TRUE, LOYAL, HONOURABLE Friend?

I am writing this to share with the world what I feel a REAL TRUE friend is.
If you’re wondering why, it is because I had been hurt by many more people just recently almost at the same time as each other. Go Figure.

But not only that, I had many people on my so called friends list and not one single person took the time or even bothered to ask me if I was ok.

Silly me thought I had friends.
Yea right not in this lifetime

I don't need friends like them, however this is what I truly believe friendship is, it is how I act and how I treat my real friends, fake ones, I now walk away.
Like papavamp told me a long time ago,
Say it once and walk away,

I will add my own personal explanation of why I wrote each line or sentence

I will be adding more text as it comes to mind.

This is for all the people who think they know me and they don’t.

A Real friend shows respect for their friend but also for others around them.
You see your actions is what people look for in a real friend, how you treat others, what you say and do to them.
That’s how people decide if they would like to be friends with that person.

A Real friend is honorable and loyal to their friend.
A real friend supports their friend at all times, even when they are right or wrong.
A Real friend notices that there is something not right with their friend and takes the time to talk to them.
Why, because they care.
A Real friend listens, and I mean REALLY LISTEN with your heart and have your ears open.
A Real Friend is kind, patient, & understanding.
A Real Friend will not sugar coat the facts, which means they won’t tell you lies or other people lies for you.

A Real Friend will tell me if I did something I need to be aware of, be cautious, be careful even if it hurts,

There is an old saying my mum use to say to me and that is,
you sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
A Real Friend backs you up, covers your back so to speak.
A Real Friend will sit and cry with you.
A Real Friend will do things for you without even asking.
A Real Friend will surprise you with something that means the world to you.
A Real Friend will try as best they can NOT to forget their friends’ birthday or to do something really special for them.
A Real Friend will show help, support and understanding of their friends’ illness.
A Real Friend will research the illness in the hope to understand it more, it shows that your friend wants to help you, stand beside you and that they really do care.

A Real Friend will be there even if you’re having a hard time in life.
A Real Friend will give you there honesty, there trust.
A Real Friend HAS THE GUTS AND THE COURAGE TO SAY "I AM SO SORRY"
>Can you see I emphasized that line.<

A Real Friend rings and or emails you to make sure your ok
A Real Friend will do anything they can, no matter what is put in their path to just know that you are safe and sound.
A Real Friend will do anything for you if they can
A Real Friend will find ways to make you smile, laugh, giggle.
A Real Friend will always be there through good and yes even bad times.
A Real Friend loves unconditionally
A Real Friend will not let others hurt them.
A Real Friend will stand up for their friend, even if it means loosing the friendship of another.
A Real Friend will not allow someone to abuse their friend.
A Real Friend will not let someone threaten them.
A Real Friend will not stand by and let someone bully their friend.
A Real Friend will not sit back and watch bad things happen to their friend; they will get in there right beside their friend and help their friend.
A Real Friend NEVER walks away when the tough gets going.
A Real Friend is compassionate and understanding.
A Real Friend does not YELL at you, just like that and especially in CAPS.
A Real Friend talks to you if you need to let off steam.
A Real Friend says Thank You for whatever the reason maybe.
A Real Friend speaks out when their friend is being hurt.
A Real Friend does NOT let their friend take the fall for something they did or for their lies and deceit.
A Real Friend does NOT cause their friend to have a nervous breakdown for lying to the innocent.
A Real Friend tells the truth at all times and above all at costs.
A Real Friend goes out of their way for a friend.
A Real Friend does NOT give up on their friends.
A Real Friend contacts the relevant authorities to help their friend if they think or feel they are in danger or being threatened or mistreated.

A Real Friend warns you of impending Danger or BAD FEEDS.
A Real Friend lets you know that another friend has been or is sick.
A Real Friend SOMETIMES HAS TO BE CRUEL TO BE KIND
A Real Friend will not let peer pressure get to them.

Remember I will keep adding to this long list of what I feel a Real True Friend is.
If I repeat myself oh well, It goes with the territory of having Mini Strokes, Breakdowns and Physical Body Shutdowns, But who cares anyway.

NO ONE DOES.

Oh and By The Way, There are worse off people than me, so think about them huh.

Would I do all the above, yes you bet your bottom dollar I would and do it now in my every day life as some of you readers now know.
I would and have done all the above for strangers, so this is who I am.

There are many times my words are taken wrong but that is because YOU people don’t or have not taken the time to ask me about it or why I said it.
All some people know how to do is trash me out and others alike all because you think your right.

Many times for me it has been from Americans because they don’t ask or they think they know what I mean when I type things.
These people just can’t be bothered to ask, they don’t care.
I have found very few who care.

Oh By the way, before you take my words wrong, I have many many wonderful American friends who I cherish with all my heart and soul and I would if I could do anything for them, but you know what,
THEY ARE MY REAL TRUE FRIENDS, AND I AM EVER SO PROUD AND HONOURED TO HAVE MET THEM ONLINE.

I have had many Americans attack me who are of bad feeds, there are others that come from Australia and UK.
I wish you people would learn to listen and ask.
Didn’t your parents or your teachers, teach you anything as you were growing up.
I guess not.
I was taught if I don’t know, to ask, because if I don’t ask, I won’t learn or understand.

Maybe you can learn from me, oh no we cant have that now can we..lol
But I guess its ok for me to learn from you
Hmmm what’s wrong with that thought?
If you don’t want friends, don’t give out your email, that’s pretty simple I think,
Yea I forgot TIMBO, I have a simple mind, now don’t I.

OH and again by the way
This writing has come from my brain and this is my intellectual property and it is copywritten.
SO DO NOT STEAL WHAT DOES NOT BELONG TO YOU
This was update on Saturday 8th November 2008 @ 8.48am
Saved and copied on my pc and disks
©Heart Of Hush8th November2008®
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