Tuesday 7 August 2007

Animal Totems

This is what I had found
http://www.sayahda.com/cycle.htm
The Cat
According to author Ted Andrews of Animal Speaks, cats wild or domestic have certain qualities in common. They are associated with myth and lore, magic and mystery. Nine lives, curiosity, independence, cleverness, unpredictability and healing. Those with this medicine should also study its color, size and breed for a deeper understanding.
Cats have more rods in the retinas of their eyes which enable them to see effectively in the dark. The dark is often associated with mankind's fears. Since the car is at home in the dark, it serves as a valuable ally into the world of the supernatural and the unknown and can help those with this totem move through their fears efficiently.
The energy field of a cat rotates is a counterclockwise direction, the opposite of a human energy field. Because of this, cats have the ability to absorb and neutralize energy that affects humans in a negative way. This is part of the healing medicine that the cat holds.
If something affects you in a negative way place a cat on your lap or find a cat to pet. Your energy field will immediately realign itself and inner balance will be restored.
Because of their x-ray vision, acute hearing and high intelligence they were used throughout history as guardians and protectors. In ancient Egypt cats guarded the temple gates and were used to ward off evil.
If cat appears in your life the blending of magic and mystery is at hand. A trustworthy teacher, the cat will guide you into the world of self discovery and transformation

http://www.linsdomain.com/totems.htm


Littlest lion, panther in miniature,
Help me in a my magical endeavors,
Teach me to see my path through dark places,
Help me to sift the necessary from the unnecessary
And to relax and enjoy life.
Strengthened my magic and carry it to its destination.

Mystery, Magic and Independence
A cat totem encourages agility in both body and mind.
You will be challenged with new ideas and places.
The cat gives you clearer perception.
This spirit helper is resourceful, strong and fearless.
It will give you courage and confidence.
Examine the colors, character and behaviors of your Cat.
Everything about it will reflect in your own life.
When a Cat becomes predominant in your life,
magic and mystery come alive.
Associated with the Norse Goddess of Fertility Freyja
and the Hindu Goddess of Childbirth, Shasthi
and of course, the Egyptian Goddess Basket who takes the form of a cat

I found some more of the websites I had saved if you care to read

http://www.spiritofangels.com/poweranimals.html

http://wolfs_moon.tripod.com/totemspage.html

Then I goggled in Animal Totems and this is a new site I had found,
http://www.starstuffs.com/animal_totems/

http://www.starstuffs.com/animal_totems/dictionary_of_animals.htm

The Cat
Magic, independence, clever, unpredictable, balance of energies and actions in life, mysteries will unfold in life if a cat has come around. Cat shows how to clarify perceptions which allows new ideas to manifest, encourages mental and emotional agility, aids in being resourceful and stealthy tactics, teaches courage and confidence. Do you need to be more independent? Are you using your resources the best of your ability? Is it time to start a new project? Cat will show how to continue the process of opening your intuition for soul growth.

Then I went on to read more to this website, I am going to copy and paste some of the relevant pages with the link pertaining to the website so you too can see what animal totem you are.
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http://www.starstuffs.com/animal_totems/

There are hidden qualities and forces of nature that we can access if we are attuned to the natural forces around us. In this section, we can learn some of the natural language the animal kingdom is telling us.
The animals express the spirit nature of that species and exemplify qualities we can learn from.
They are psychological and spiritual symbols that convey to us qualities we are needing or lacking in our daily lives.

Carl Jung termed "archetypes" as primordial symbols of the "collective unconscious". Animal totems are archetypes that work with the subconscious mind, tapping into the energy that is present in all things. Totems can be seen as channels or frequencies on a radio depending on the need of the individual. Our electromagnetic energy field taps into that frequency. However, the key to understanding this language is being perceptive and aware of our surroundings.

This is by no means a worship of the animals but rather using the animal totems as spiritual tools, or rather a spiritual symbiosis, along our personal path. Honor and respect for all of nature was and is recognized. Man is not above nature, man is one with nature.
Totems and all of nature, demonstrate a spiritual connectedness that helps guide us on our own path of self discovery.

Then I selected this link
http://www.starstuffs.com/animal_totems/finding.htm

"Anima"(Latin) means Soul or Breath of Life



Animal totems are animals we tend to have an attraction to, either by a
calling toward the animal or the animal appears to us to teach some quality of
itself. They emanate the breath of our lives by showing us certain qualities
and behaviors that we should emulate somewhere in our livelihood.
We each come into this world accompanied by an animal spirit - a significant
indicator of our personal power - that walks with us on our soul journey
through space and time. These Spirit Guides are very personal totems since
they strongly reflect our inner spiritual nature. One could have several of
these totems since they guide us along our path and give us courage and
strength in our journey. They may appear at separate times throughout your
life or perhaps alternating in appearances, all to teach us lessons we need to
learn. This could be viewed as a hierarchy of animal totems: from everyday
spirit helpers/reminders to "mother-father" type figures in the spirit realm
who guide, watch over and train us throughout our lives.


As with any human relationship, we need to understand the language of the
animal partner in order to fully understand it. Listening is approximately 85%
of a conversation. In humans, when we listen, actually listen to every word
and meaning the person is saying, we come to understand minute details that
are important to that person. The same applies likewise within the animal
kingdom. Communication and interaction strengthen and empower the union
between animal worlds and ourselves.
These Spirit Guides have chosen you and will appear when you are ready to
understand. They are also usually wild in nature (not domesticated). The
animal spirits may reveal themselves in visions and/or dreams with an
unmistakable familiar knowing associated with it. Honor, respect and
attentiveness must be given because you are now ready for a new segment in
your journey. Over time trust is built and we eventually take on those imbued
characteristics and merge with the animal spirits, becoming one with the
energy.

Learning of your personal animal totem(s) will give you a greater sense of
appreciation of your own connections to all life. In human relationships, it
may also help to understand the significance of that person's spirit animal(s)
and how it interacts with your animal totem(s). When you acknowledge the other
dynamic energies that play a part of the relationship it will help you better
understand the dynamics of the relationship as a whole. This understanding can
enhance and create a lasting foundation in all that you do. Perhaps listening
to relationship totems could teach you something about yourself as well?

By recognizing and acknowledging animal totems as you see them, the energy
working in your life will increase. You will start to notice your personal
power animal(s) everywhere you go, in books, magazines and postcards, in
nature, in dreams and visions. By surrounding yourself with images you connect
with the animal and the energy and wisdom it imparts. Your awareness will
abound. Here follows a basic guideline to finding your special animal.
Which animals have always fascinated you, especially in childhood?
Which animals have you always felt connected to?
What animals do you see frequently in the wild?
Which quality of animal best describes your personality?
Which animals do you have around you in pictures or figurines?

The other type of animal totem is more of a general, all-encompassing one,
that we need to be open and be aware of in everyday life. These nature totems
also bring spiritual messages by appearing to us in seemingly odd ways. The
more we are in tune with our surroundings, the easier it is to receive such
messages. The better our inner awareness, the easier it is for this form of
communication to take place. The subtleties, nuances and actions of these
animals will tell you a lot. Some of these animals may repeat their appearance
many times in your life as a 'secondary journey totem'. These animals may not
be the Spirit Guide(s) as mentioned above, however, they are there to help you
as a specifically chosen property for your current path for that particular
moment. Here the line is shadowed a bit by the definitions of Spirit Guide,
Secondary Totem, General Totem. Please don't let definitions hinder what you
think, feel and intuit about the animals. ALL the animals are there to guide,
to teach and to show you what is happening in your world. ALL the animals,
including us are connected, there are no "lines" of separation - only
separation by levels of awareness.
For a personal power totem or an overall nature one, it is wise to study the
habits of the animal in its surroundings, what it eats, where it sleeps, how
it moves, including the gestation and life cycle, this will help you recognize
what it is telling you to apply to your life.

The above criteria is what I follow when I am asked what certain animals mean
in a person's life. For the most part, requests for animal meanings can take
up to 2 written pages and usually gives an accurate description of what is
going in their lives. I study the surroundings and behaviors and then apply
and transpose the animal energies into human terms. Sometimes complex in
nature, sometimes relatively easy- as with our spiritual paths. It all depends
on the depth of the inquiry. I'd like to note here, you may notice the
Dictionaries of Animals I have compiled are short-handed explanations of some
core energies of the animal's characteristics vs an extensive write-up. It's
important to do your own inquiry into your spirit animals. This page and site
gives you the necessary tools to start along that path of disovery. No one can
give you the *meaning* of the answers you need.

Now that you have some tools to discover your personal totem animal we shall
then look at how we are joined to the rest of the animal kingdom through the
common animal totems. All animals are linked by the Great Spirit, including
humans. Nature has a way of communicating if we only listen as they are
representatives of our unconscious minds. Through the appearance of animals in
the everyday environment we can then determine what the underlying situation
is in our lives. For instance, the direction we should take in dilemmas, what
the best course of action is, and how we should behave in given circumstances.
The Great Spirit has linked us all together in order to learn and grow in our
own Spirit. He has given us the chance to learn or perhaps relearn the
language of the animals.
When you come across an animal that is not normally seen around you. Take
notice. If a bird is constantly vocal outside your window, listen and watch. A
deer or a rabbit strays into your yard, listen and watch. After a while you
will know and understand what the animals are trying to tell you. It is
understood that there may be a variety of animals around you everyday.
However, it is the subtle awareness, the nuances, which allow you to listen
what is being said.
Also, take note of dreams and visions: the same properties apply in this realm
as in the dream realm. Often times a Spirit Guide will show you things and
teach you in a way you can comprehend for the moment. Be aware of the animals,
for there is no separation between the physical and spiritual are one.

Some subtleties of the general animal totems that you need to be aware of are
as follows.
How is the animal moving in relation to yourself?
(Right, Left, Away, Toward)
How is it crossing your path: emerging, coming into or leaving your life?
Notice where the animal is looking, walking, flying, heading etc.
Which direction is the animal coming from or going to?
(see Animal Directions)
Also the number of animals is relevant to the direction.

Number of Animals
Significance and Meaning of the Number
1 Originality, initiating action, pioneering, leading, new beginnings,
attaining.
2 Cooperation, adaptability, partnering, mediating, consideration of
others
3 Birth, expression, socialization, joy of living, mystical, creativity,
verbalization
4 Patience, order, service, steady growth, foundation, struggle against
limits
5 Activities, change, visionary, adventure, constructive use of freedom,
versatile.
6 Responsibility, service to home and family, nurturing, balance,
sympathy
7 Wisdom, truths, understanding, knowledge, awareness, mediating,
studious
8 Money, status oriented, power seeking, practical endeavors, high
material goals
9 Humanitarian, giving, healing, understanding, selflessness, obligations


Note: Double digits add up to be a single number.

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http://www.animaltotem.com/find-your-totem.html


How To Find Your Animal Totem
An Animal Totem is an important symbolic object used by a person to get in touch with specific qualities found within an animal which the person needs, connects with, or feels a deep affinity toward.

You can have several animal guides through out your life. Sometimes an animal guide will come into your life for a short period of time, and then be replaced by another depending on the journey or direction you are headed toward. Your guide will instruct and protect you as you learn how to navigate through your spiritual and physical life. When you find an animal that speaks strongly to you or feel you must draw more deeply into your life, you might fill your environment with images of the animal to let the animal know its welcome in your space. Animal guides can help you get back to your Earthly roots, and reconnect with nature by reminding you that we are all interconnected. To first do this you need to know what your Animal Totem is.

If You Don't Know
If you don't know what your Animal Totem is there are several questions you can ask yourself. All of the questions below are designed to get you thinking about a prominent animal in your life.
There are no right or wrong answers.
Only you can truly know which Animal Totem(s) are right for your journey.
Since we are drawn to that which resonates with us, what animal, bird, or insect are you drawn to?
When you go to the park, forest, or zoo what animal are you most interested in seeing?
What animal do you most frequently see when you're out in nature or in the city?
What animals are you currently interested in learning about?
Which animal do you find most frightening or intriguing?
Have you ever been bitten or attacked by an animal?
Is there a recurring animal in your dreams or do you have one you have never forgotten?
Still Uncertain?
If you are still uncertain which animal is your totem, here a few exercises you can do to come closer to the answer. You must not try to force the animal to come, it can pick up on that energy and be put off. Being patient and doing the following exercises will draw your animal totem to you.
Ask yourself what animal has played a meaningful part in your world? If you're unsure, make a list of animals that have drawn your interest or have left a deep impression on you from paintings, photographs, stories, movies, carvings, etc.
Which animal shows up in your life most frequently? Keep a journal of the animals present in your dreams or that you encounter through the day for the next month. How did the animal behave? Did you interact with the animal?
Find a place where you can be alone to meditate. Sit quietly and ask your animal to make it's nature known to you. Feel free to use tools such as incense, smudge, and candles to help you.
Don't give up, sometimes your animal totem is nearby watching to see if you're serious about connecting with it. Keep doing the above exercises until your animal totem makes itself known to you.

Saturday 4 August 2007

Aussie Phrases,Sayings

I went looking for some ways to show some of my friends about aussies and our language,sayings, words.
Links of Interests


http://members.ozemail.com.au/~enigman/australia/slang.html
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http://www.sharoncolon.com/sharon/links/page461.htm
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http://goaustralia.about.com/cs/language/a/strinea.htm
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http://www.geocities.com/southbeach/breakers/8092/ozslang.htm
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http://www.sunburntcountry.au.com/sayings/
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"A FOREVER FRIEND"

http://www.friendship.com.au/poetry/popular/pop2.html#forever

"A FOREVER FRIEND"
© Suzin Polish Schwartz or LaurieAnn Kelly (unclear who was original author)
Sent By Rachelle

Sometimes in life,
you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life
just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh
until you can't stop;
Someone who makes you believe
that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you
that there really is an unlocked door
just waiting for you to open it.
This is Forever Friendship.
When you're down,
and the world seems dark and empty,
Your forever friend lifts you up in spirit
and makes that dark and empty world
suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through
the hard times, the sad times,
and the confused times.
If you turn and walk away,
your forever friend follows.
If you lose your way,
your forever friend guides you
and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand
and tells you that
everything is going to be okay.
And if you find such a friend,
you feel happy and complete,
because you need not worry.
You have a forever friend for life,
and forever has no end.

Friend's Prayer

http://www.friendship.com.au/poetry/popular/pop6.html#one

A Friend's Prayer
© Jill Wolf, sent by Wendy Hinson

May my friendships always be
The most important thing to me;
With special friends I feel I'm blessed,
So let me give my very best.
I want to do much more than share
The hopes and plans of friends who care;
I'll try all that a friend can do
To make their secret dreams come true.
Let me use my heart to see,
To realise what friends can be,
And make no judgements from afar,
But love my friends the way they are.

A Friend ABC

http://www.friendship.com.au/poetry/popular/pop4.html#two

A Friend ABC


(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over
(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
(O)ffers support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits
(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you
(W)alks beside you
(X)-plain things you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality

Another Friendship Poem

http://www.friendship.com.au/poetry/general/gen6.html#one



A friend is someone to share your whole day with,
someone to wish on a star,
a friend is someone to laugh 'till your crying,
one with to walk very far,
A friend is someone who won't tell your secrets,
a friend is somebody fair,
a friend is someone to share a big sundae,
someone to French braid your hair,
a friend is someone to make you happy,
when your very blue,
a friend is someone who teaches you things like how to tie your shoe,
a friend is someone who's always there for whatever you may need,
a friend is someone who you love, a freind is a friend indeed.



Friends
© Jodi Kenyon

A friend is someone true and for real,
A friend is someone who means a great deal.
A friend won't hurt you,
A friend won't lie,
A friend will never permanantly say good-bye.
A friend is there through the good times and bad,
A friend is there to cheer you up when your sad.
A friend is always there with a shoulder to cry on,
A friend is always there that you can rely on.
So, friend if you ever need someone honest and true,
Just remember ill always be here for you .




Friends
© Lindsey Shirocky

Friends are there until the end,
They're always themselves, no pretend.
They're not afraid to be seen with you,
They will never betray you.
Friends never tell secrets they promise to keep,
they make you feel good about yourself in times of weep.
They come and cheer for you at your games,
In a friend there is no shame.
Friends are there to listen when you're depressed,
They are the people you should know best.
Friends are like presents you open again and again,
Always are with you through thick and thin.

More Friendship Poems

Here is another Poem I found.
http://www.friendship.com.au/poetry/general/gen4.html#two

Only When...
© Shariz

Friendship is a rare jewel that shines,
Only when you give it a sunny smile
Friendship is a lock that opens,
Only when you unlock your true self to it
Friendship is a song, which is sung,
Only when you know its rhythm
Friendship is a dream, which comes true,
Only when you believe in it
Friendship is a sun, which rises,
Only when your heart has set on it
Friendship is a throne, on which you can sit,
Only when you share your kingdom with it
Friendship is a path, which you will find,
Only when you know you are lost
Friendship is a hand that holds yours,
Only when you extend yours
Friendship is an album of reminiscences, which you can leaf through,
Only when you cherish it
Friendship is a lamp, which lights,
Only when you know it will assuage your heart
Friendship is a lantern, which glows,
Only when you need the warmth of it
Friendship is a language, which you speak,
Only when you know the meaning of it
Friendship is a potpourri of feelings, which you can smell,
Only when you have a true friend…





Friendship
© 1997 Angela

Friendship is the kind of love
that never can grow old.
Warm and cozy it will stay
when other things are cold.
Friendship is a love so true
it won't be denied,
Because a friend will always be
there close by your side.
Boyfriends and lovers come and go
in this game of life we play,
But a true friend, no matter what,
in your heart will always stay.
So hold these friends dear to you,
and never let them go.
Think how much they mean to you,
and make sure to tell them so.

Friendship Poems

I wanted to share with you some beautiful friendship poems i have come across.
http://www.friendship.com.au/poetry/general/gen5.html#one

Friendship
© 1996 Taran

My dearest foolish friend, will you never learn
Will you never learn to trust in our friendship
Will you never understand what friendship is
Are you so very untrusting, so withdrawn
that you cannot see what is right in front of you

Can you not see that real friends never turn away
Never abandon the other during times of crisis
Never seek to hurt the other, nor give pain at any time
Friends are those that bond together and stay together
The truest of friends share their innermost secrets
the good, bad and ugly that others would not understand

A friend will never judge or make the other
feel less than what they truly are
A friend wants only what is best for the other
and always forgives life's little mistakes
Never lessening who and what they are
Never trying to change what cannot be changed

A friend treasures all that is given to them
in words, thoughts, feelings and expressions of the heart
Only one that cares will listen to your deepest thoughts
only a friend will hold these things to their heart
and know that they are special because they are from you

These things and oh so much more
are what the truest, purest form of friendship are about
A friend will give strength in your weakest moments
be your rock and strongest ally never waning
A friend will be there for you
in this time and space and even into the afterworld

So dearest friend, treasure what you have
never take it for granted, never assume
never be anything but what you are - a friend
special because you are who you are.




True Friendship
© 1996 Shauna

Friendship is something that grows through the years
Withstanding feelings of anger, joy and tears
It is something you cannot live without
A friend you can turn to when in doubt
They should listen carefully and not speak a word
For you would do the same when they want to be heard
A person you can confide in, learn from and trust
This is a friend and everyone must
Be able to have someone just like this
Not a boyfriend to hug, cuddle and kiss
But a person so special, faithful and true
The only one I can think of is a person like you
Our friendship is strong, healthy and great
Through the years I see its wonderful fate
A fate of laughs, greatness and fun
We have only one life to live and this is the one
The past- full of memories that runs through my head
The bad ones never talked about or said
Every moment of life should glisten with fresh morning dew
This reminds me of the greatest friendship one ever knew.

Gods Gift to People World Wide

This is coming soon

Paltalk Lady says Thank You

Hi All,
I have a story to write, yea what else is new; well this IS about my real life experiences.
And here is a recent one as of last night.
So I am here to tell you about a wonderful lady that touched my heart and soul my last night being Friday night 3rd of August 2007.
You see my friend Ozzie_99_au was on Paltalk last night and I have been sick but I wanted to listen with him in the room.
He told me was in the room called Goodtimes Karaoke Respect Studio, So I went into the room, was greeted and said hello to and then I sat and listened and talked in the room.
Then a lady that was in the room she asked if she could private message me, I said of course you can.
You see what this lady didn’t know I guess is I still had her nic added to my Paltalk list from when we did the Billy Thorpe Tribute room on Paltalk.
Well she contacted me and she had told me something that brought tears to my heart and soul and not to mention physically as well.
This lady told me the following
x~Pal Lady~x hi heart .. I have been reading your website I loveeeee it such a good writer the voice message from Tammy I must admit it bought tears to my eyes ?
Heart_Of_Hush: did you see it
(7:12 PM) x~Pal Lady~x yep
Heart_Of_Hush: yes it does huh
(7:13 PM) x~Pal Lady~x I read it every night I have added it to my favs
Heart_Of_Hush: i haven’t written anything as yet
Heart_Of_Hush: have you
Heart_Of_Hush: wow thank you
(7:13 PM) x~Pal Lady~x yep love it lol
Heart_Of_Hush: oh good
Heart_Of_Hush: I’m glad you do like it
Heart_Of_Hush: wow thank you ever so much
(7:13 PM) x~Pal Lady~x no problem it’s a credit to u
Heart_Of_Hush: I have been sick and I haven’t written my words to her recording as yet
Heart_Of_Hush: thank you...I was almost going to give up
(7:14 PM) x~Pal Lady~x nooooo don’t u dare give it up
Heart_Of_Hush: but you tonight have brought happy tears to me
Heart_Of_Hush: thank you
(7:15 PM) x~Pal Lady~x your very welcome keep up the great work?
Heart_Of_Hush: please if you ever want to pm me please do
Heart_Of_Hush: thank you
(7:16 PM) x~Pal Lady~x pal is a great big world out there and sometimes we think of things and never put it to paper and what u have done is amazing
Heart_Of_Hush: please don’t think I am nuts or a sicko.....but I believe god gave me the ability to write as well as the other things i do
Heart_Of_Hush: the words just pop into my head sometimes....and mostly when I write it is of my real life experiences
(7:18 PM) x~Pal Lady~x hey your no sicko by no means that’s some talent
Heart_Of_Hush: ....I stay offline because I have been told that people are talking about me behind my back...I am being used by people on here...and I have been called a sicko
Heart_Of_Hush: you know why it is why i think
Heart_Of_Hush: cause I stand up to the bullies and abusers
Heart_Of_Hush: I call it as it is
Heart_Of_Hush: so they have to trash me as they got nothing else better to do
(7:21 PM) x~Pal Lady~x i have been on this program for years u get all sorts one thing I learnt very fast I choose my friends very carefully and not worry what others say I treat my friends on here how I would like to be treated in real life I take my friends as reality on here and don’t let others try and destroy my friendship I have on here with my friends
Heart_Of_Hush: you know something I am glad you said that
Heart_Of_Hush: that is exactly how I think sort of
Heart_Of_Hush: I believe the people we all talk to is real
Heart_Of_Hush: and I as you do treat these people are real
Heart_Of_Hush: but I was being told......hey this is the internet
Heart_Of_Hush: and you’re not going to meet these people in real life
Heart_Of_Hush: so I was kinda lost as to what is real or fantasy
(7:23 PM) x~Pal Lady~x and the number one key is respect as u would know .... ppl that don’t respect others I don’t chat with them cos they really are on here to start trouble
Heart_Of_Hush: yes exactly
Heart_Of_Hush: that is what I do 1st..I give respect
Heart_Of_Hush: I was going to make the pay it forward room my last room on pal
Heart_Of_Hush: I hadn’t told anyone as yet
Heart_Of_Hush: this is what I have scheduled next
Heart_Of_Hush: http://payitforward.topcities.com/index.html

(7:26 PM) x~Pal Lady~x so that means u don’t wanna come back on pal or its just going to be the last room u open ?
Heart_Of_Hush: I don’t come here much at all if you notice
Heart_Of_Hush: and yes the last room
(7:27 PM) x~Pal Lady~x that’s a shame
Heart_Of_Hush: I don’t want to because every time I do something good I get slammed
Heart_Of_Hush: and I got people saying I am a sicko
Heart_Of_Hush: I feel so uncomfortable being here
(7:28 PM) x~Pal Lady~x ohhhhhh u really shouldn’t feel that way
Heart_Of_Hush: you have made me feel a bit better
Heart_Of_Hush: thank you for that
(7:29 PM) x~Pal Lady~ xyvw
Heart_Of_Hush: I got a feeling your going to like what I write soon then again you may not
(7:30 PM) x~Pal Lady~x I love all your writing
(7:30 PM) x~Pal Lady~x its taken me ages to catch up tho lol
Heart_Of_Hush: I do speak from the heart
Heart_Of_Hush: is ok
(7:30 PM) x~Pal Lady~x I mean catching up on your site
Heart_Of_Hush: I am glad that YOU like my writing
Heart_Of_Hush: yes I know
Heart_Of_Hush: then god gave me the ability to give you something
(7:31 PM) x~Pal Lady~x yep for sure?
Heart_Of_Hush: well my job is done then
Heart_Of_Hush: that’s all I ever wanted
Heart_Of_Hush: was to help someone...even 1 person
(7:32 PM) x~Pal Lady~x and its like this I don’t know u and u don’t know me I have made up my own mind in your writing
Heart_Of_Hush: you see you have just paid it forward to me
(7:32 PM) x~Pal Lady~x yep ?
Heart_Of_Hush: yes it is from our lives and experiences
Heart_Of_Hush: sometimes I think I am too hard for pal
Heart_Of_Hush: and then I have doubts of myself
(7:35 PM) x~Pal Lady~x well I can assure u your writing gives me great pleasure in reading it
Heart_Of_Hush: good and thank you for going out of your way to tell me...that means a lot to me
Heart_Of_Hush: it actually helps me. Gives me a little more confidence when I go backwards
(7:36 PM) x~Pal Lady~ xyvw

From this conversation with this lady that I don’t know she helped me smile to know that maybe I have helped one person with something in my writing.
So much of what I write is from MY real life experiences and it doesn’t mean you have to follow what I said, as this lady said she makes her own decisions on how or what she does.
You see what works for me may not work for you or the situation your in.
I do get very passionate when someone is being mistreated or hurt; it reminds me of how I was and am sometimes.
Yes I am human I go back wards however when gods angels pop into my life as this lady did, it reminds me to get back up and keep pushing.
I really do thank this wonderful lady for going out of her way to tell the above text and also for paying it forward to me.
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You know what I think; well I think this should be forwarded to all of your friends,
If my writings has touched this lady maybe it will touch another.

Spreading to the world of good is such a wonderful thing and should never be hidden.
So what are you waiting for, send the link to this page to all of your friends and relatives, yes even your enemies, they may learn something.
**


If you want to read more of my writings please look to the left side of the page and you will see a heading "List of my writings"
Just click on a topic


Hugs to you all, happy reading, and please take care, be safe.
Heart Of Hush aka Lu
Copyright Saturday 4th August 2007 @ 11-44am

DO NOT REPRODUCE MY WORDS IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM,
THIS IS MY INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY AND “MY COPYRIGHTS”,
ALL THE ABOVE WRITINGS ARE MY WORDS EXCEPT WHERE NOTED THAT I CREATED TODAY BEING Saturday 4th of August 2007

©Copyright 2007 Mrs. L Peters aka Heart Of Hush All Rights Reserved

Friday 3 August 2007

From Tammy




Code came from the following link

http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=generators§ion=video

Happy Listening
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Hi all, let me tell you how you all this came about, you see I was creating a website for the pay it forward room I was organizing in a room on Paltalk.
I had asked Tammy if she would sit down and write me her story of someone giving to her their Pay It Forward to Tammy.
Well she didn't write it down, however as I hope you can see and hear, Tammy found another way to share her story and that was on SingSnap.
Tammy left me an offline to go to this webpage; it was on SingSnap and from what I understand only SingSnap users can visit from the enclosed link
http://www.singsnap.com/snap/r/b511e190
So I went to the page not expecting what I was to eventually find.
Well what can I say except from the time the recording started until it finished I cried and cried like a little baby, guess being sick brings out more emotions, however I think going through the change of life also just maybe has something to do with it.
Oh as a point when I said sick I mean I have what the doctor labeled a Viral Infection.
As Tammy said we have been friends for a very long time, and yes Tammy has been there for me as well, but you know something, I call it being true real friends.
With our ups and our downs, when one of us is crying or laughing from what one of us said.
We have been there for each other, standing right beside each other.
We have learnt each others way of living, and many times we have come across things that don’t make sense to us, but we ask and learn.
I remember telling Tammy about a word she would say that is an American saying and here in AUS it is like a rude word. She was so funny, cause when I told her she was on cam and she went as red as a beetroot.
I have been around Tammy’s children as they grow up and yes just as Tammy said they were so very little.
I have learnt a lot from Tammy as I have never read the bible and when things pop into my head I ask her.
And I guess right now your saying why don’t I read the bible, well it’s because if god wanted me to read it he would ask me, however he teaches me by the messages he gives me and yes sometimes I doubt but I soon learn.
So yes Tammy has helped me see things and learn things.
Tammy is one of the many friends that have told me that god gave me these gifts for a reason and from time to time sometimes you see them in action.
Tammy is a support for me as I would support her for good intentions only by both of us.
I would never support bad feeds. Many times I have had to be hard at Tammy and vice a versa, in the hope we learn the lesson that was given to both of us, I believe. And oh how uncomfy I felt, but in the long run we both learnt and we did it together as real friends should side be side so to speak.
I never like to hurt no one but sometimes people including me needs a good kick up the butt.
Tammy has learnt that I am from the old ways, I stand in front of her so she don’t get hurt, Tammy has been a wonderful long time friend and yes as Tammy said we have never met.
Sometimes when I have writers block so to speak and I know I am looking for some right words to say as I can feel them in my soul, so I start looking on the internet, and yes I quite often find the words I am looking for.
Below are some poems that I had searched for, sometime ago for a different reason; however they belong here as well
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Simple v Real Friendship
sent by Chen Qin
A simple friend identifies himself when he calls.
A real friend doesn't have to.
A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life.
A real friend says, "What's new with you?"
A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.
A real friend says, "You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it."
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
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Friendship Means...
By Rachel Chastain
You know you have a friend for life when they answer the phone at one in the morning because you can't sleep and have a lot on your mind, and they don't mind talking about nothing to get your mind off everything.
They spare some time to spend with you.
When you know that if something bad happened to you they'd be there for you, no questions asked.
When you can look at them when some thing is wrong and they know it just by the look in their eyes and all they have to do is offer a hug and you feel a thousand times better.
When you know that they'd never lie to you, and would never hurt you and if they did it would only be for your betterment.
They can make you laugh when skies are the darkest, and they're there with a good movie and some popcorn when you're totally depressed.
And even if you're a thousand miles apart, it doesn't matter because what you share with this friend is so much deeper then what lies on top that distance plays no role in your friendship.
Friendship is when they push when you need it, but never too hard; and stand back when the time is right but never to far.
And the true test of friendship is if you're willing to do it all back in a heartbeat.
When you're life is so much better because you know them, and they bring out the best that lies within.
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A short course in Human Relations:
The six most important words: "I admit I made a mistake."
The five most important words: "You did a good job."
The four most important words: "What is your opinion."
The three most important words: "If you please."
The two most important words: "Thank you."
The one most important word: "WE"
The least important word: "I"

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Written by Jessica Romenesko

What I've Learned About Friendship
• I've learned that there are many good friends around, but true best friends are hard to come by.
• I've learned that sometimes you love a best friend more than a boyfriend.
• I've learned that a best friend is more important than a boyfriend.
• I've learned that you can do something or nothing with a best friend and still have the best time.
• I've learned that a true friendship has many memories, both good and bad, but all important.
• I've learned that sometimes the most used part of a best friend is the shoulder you cry on, and the shoulder you are willing to lend.
• I've learned that when a best friend is happy, you find yourself happy too, even when it has nothing to do with you.
• I've learned that a best friend's family soon feels like your own.
• I've learned that the only one who truly understands is a true friend.
• I've learned that nothing ever sounds stupid, funny, or unbelievable to a best friend, and you never feel stupid saying whatever it is.
• I've learned that sometimes it feels like a best friend is the only one who will ever care about you and think you are beautiful in your own way.
• I've learned that you always have that something extra to give to a best friend in need, and can count on that in return.
• I've learned that your heart is forever touched by a true friend, no matter how things end up.
• I've learned that when your heart has been broken, a best friend is the best band-aid for it.
• I've learned that a best friend will call you in the middle of the night to talk without thinking, and it's OK.
• I've learned that in many cases, a hug and a kind word from a best friend is the only thing that helps get you through the day.
• I've learned that a best friend would stick up for you no matter what the consequences are.
• I've learned that best friends can sing at the top of their lungs and not worry about singing the wrong words or being out of tune.
• I've learned that best friends stay up all night and on the phone for hours talking without even realizing it.
• I've learned that a best friend can tell the difference between a silly crush, and more than that.
• I've learned that sometimes a best friend is all you have.
• I've learned that sometimes you wonder how she knew, but then you realize that's just how close you are.
• I've learned that when you are true best friends, everyone else knows it.
• I've learned that, most importantly of all, best friends will always be best friends, no matter what is happening in their lives, where they are, or what they are doing. A best friend is irreplaceable. This is the most important thing I could have ever been taught by a best friend.
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So as you see by the above words of poetry and writings, true real friends are the most wonderful gift that god can give us, hold onto them tight as they can never be replaced with money or material things.
These people are precious to our hearts and souls and they mean so much to us.
Tammy and I always say “I love you” as I believe friends should and do, before we close our text conversation as you never know when the last chance is to let your friend know that you do care for them and your thinking about them.
It is never too late to write your feelings down or record them, tell your friends or loved ones how YOU feel.
I am trying to do that every day of my life as I have no idea when god is going to say, hey Lu its time.
So please don’t put it off, do it today/tonight wherever you are in this big wide world of ours.
Tell someone how much you care for them, how much you love them, how much you appreciate what they do.
How hard can that be, not that hard because, hey I am doing it, and if I can do it you can too
Tammy thank you for the wonderful recording and for paying it forward.
As I said I cried.
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You know what I think; well I think this should be forwarded to all of your friends, show them that you’re not alone and there are others just like you or can be like you.
Spreading to the world of good is such a wonderful thing and should never be hidden.
So what are you waiting for, send the link to this page to all of your friends and relatives, yes even your enemies, they may learn something.
**

Ok I have written enough, if I keep writing it will end up being a book.

If you want to read more of my writings please look to the left side of the page and you will see a heading "List of my writings"
Just click on a topic


Hugs to you all, happy reading, and please take care, be safe.
Heart Of Hush aka Lu
Copyright Saturday 4th August 2007 @ 9-58am

DO NOT REPRODUCE MY WORDS IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM,
THIS IS MY INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY AND “MY COPYRIGHTS”,
ALL THE ABOVE WRITINGS ARE MY WORDS EXCEPT WHERE NOTED THAT I CREATED TODAY BEING Saturday 4th of August 2007

©Copyright 2007 Mrs. L Peters aka Heart Of Hush All Rights Reserved